How to Date Better

A 5-Week Live Course on Dating with Confidence, Clarity, and Self-Awareness

Tired of swiping, ghosting, getting ghosted, and wondering if it's always going to feel this hard?

This course is for that moment.

How to Date Better is a 5-week live program designed to help you understand why dating feels so hard, break the patterns keeping you stuck, and actually get better at this. Not by becoming someone different, but by becoming more yourself.

This isn't about tips and tricks.
It's about real skills, real insight, and real change that holds.

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YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE

This Course Is For You If

  • You keep falling for people who can't fully show up for you
  • You're exhausted by the apps and don't know how to make them work
  • You get ghosted, confused by mixed messages, or stuck in situationships
  • You're tired of repeating the same dating patterns
  • You feel anxious, hopeless, or numb about dating
  • You want to have real, honest conversations — about sex, about feelings, about what you want — but you don't know how
  • You know something needs to change but you don't know where to start

THE JOURNEY

What You'll Learn

Week 1 — THE REAL STORY
Dating Is Hard — And That's Not Your Fault

You'll learn why dating in the modern world is genuinely hard, and why blaming yourself is making it worse. We'll set honest, intentional goals for dating — not "find the one ASAP" but actually knowing what you want and why.

You'll identify:

  • What you actually want from dating (vs. what you think you should want)
  • The beliefs and stories you carry about love and relationships
  • How to show up to dating with less anxiety and more intention

You'll stop apologizing for finding this hard — and start approaching it with strategy.

Week 2 — TIME TO DATE
The Relationship Marketplace & How to Show Up

This week we get into the mechanics of modern dating — the apps, the profiles, the communication, the dates themselves.

You'll learn:

  • How to use dating apps without losing your mind
  • How to communicate authentically online and in person
  • How to be present on dates instead of performing
  • What sexual communication looks like when it's honest and not awkward

This isn't about being better at dating theater. It's about actually connecting.

Week 3 — CHALLENGES
When Things Get Real

Challenges in early dating are 100% guaranteed. This week we stop pretending otherwise — and build the skills to navigate them without blowing everything up or shutting down.

You'll work on:

  • Recognizing your triggers and why they happen
  • Navigating differences without losing yourself or the connection
  • Communicating when things get hard — without performing or disappearing
  • Understanding your attachment style and how it plays out in dating

This is where insight stops being passive and starts being useful.

Week 4 — UNAVAILABLE
Why You Keep Choosing People Who Can't Show Up

This is the week people call life-changing. We go deep into why you're drawn to unavailable people — the mixed messages, the hot and cold, the anxiety-producing chase — and what it's really about.

You'll explore:

  • The psychology behind choosing unavailable partners
  • How to recognize avoidant and anxious patterns in real time
  • What rejection and ghosting are actually triggering in you
  • How to stop chasing and start choosing people who choose you back

Understanding this pattern is one of the most liberating things you can do.

Week 5 — SELF + SURVIVAL
Dating Yourself & Building the Resilience to Keep Going

The final week is about sustainability — how to keep dating without burning out, how to cope with loneliness and hopelessness honestly, and how to make your own life so rich that dating becomes something you do from fullness, not from desperation.

You'll build:

  • Practical tools for managing dating fatigue and emotional exhaustion
  • A real relationship with yourself that doesn't depend on someone else choosing you
  • Self-discovery practices that make you more interesting and more grounded
  • The resilience to keep going — with hope that's rooted in reality

This is where everything integrates. You leave not just with skills, but with yourself.

✨ What You Get When You Enroll

Everything you need to go from exhausted and confused to clear, confident, and actually enjoying this.

📅 5 Live Weekly Sessions on Zoom
Real-time coaching, Q&A, and group support — every week for 5 weeks

 

📚 5 Weeks of Structured Content
Weekly lessons, exercises & reflection prompts you can actually use

💬 Daily Access to Todd Throughout the Course
Ask questions, share what's coming up, get real guidance between sessions

 

🔁 Lifetime Access to All Recordings & Materials
Can't make a session live? No problem. Everything is recorded and yours to keep

🤝 A Private, Supportive Community of People Doing the Same Work
You're not doing this alone — connect with others who get it

The Outcome

This course won't give you quick fixes or surface-level dating advice.

It will give you:

  • Real language for what's been running your dating life
  • A framework for understanding your patterns
  • Tools for navigating the emotional complexity of modern dating
  • Practical skills for communication, sex, triggers, and connection
  • Support while you do the actual work

Getting better at dating isn't about forcing connection. It's about learning to be someone who's ready for it.

📅 Enrollment Details

Start Date: May 1st, 2026

Live Sessions: 5 Weekly Sessions on Zoom, Sundays 10am Est

Duration: 5 weeks

Location: Zoom

Access: 5 weeks of weekly content + lifetime access to recordings

This course is for you if...

  • You're tired of swiping and wondering what you're doing wrong
  • You're ready to stop repeating the same patterns
  • You want to date with more confidence, clarity, and self-awareness

This course is for you. Enroll below.

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